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Watching your parents grow older, and struggle with health issues can be
incredibly hard. My mother, Vivian Baker just turned 81 this year, and by
most accounts this still seems like a miracle to me. For years her health
has gone downhill which has robbed her of much of her abilities. Of course,
not being able to drive and do most things she used to affected her and made
her feel really helpless at times.
A couple of years ago through a chance encounter we found ourselves at The
Gardens of Clinton . From the moment we walked through the doors we felt
like we were walking into something for royalty! It was so beautiful! Right
away we fell in love with the cozy fireplace and library area and we barely
made it through the doors. As we kept touring the place it felt like someone
had designed it especially for her! The mail was indoors! That in itself was
such a relief as she had fallen one winter walking on ice to get it at her
house. Again, I thought they thought of everything. Then we made it to the
kitchen and dining area and they had juices, coffee, hot chocolate and
continental breakfast for the residence! We happily joined in.
What was the most surprising to me was that my mother was smiling the whole
time and couldn't stop raving. That in itself was a miracle because my
mother really doesn't like change or moving. At the time she was living at
another senior complex but unhappy. Still I couldn't have prepared for her
to say to me, "I want to move here."
Fast forward two years, and my mother tells me that she has never been this
happy - ever. That was something I had prayed for but knew at her age maybe
that prayer couldn't be answered, but it was. Was it just the amenities? No,
and while everything is picture perfect and beautiful the most important
feature at The Gardens is the staff.
As a daughter who spends a great deal of time worrying about my mother, I
couldn't be more grateful to the wonderful staff. They truly care about
their residents and truly love what they do. I cannot thank them enough for
the way they have made my mother feel, and how they have helped me relax a
little! They go way above and beyond for their people. I can honestly say we
all feel like family and that isn't something you can buy. I know this is
why my mother is happy. Even I look forward to seeing them whenever I visit.
Her days are filled with games, shopping, and her favorite thing to do:
reading outdoors under the gazebo or by the fireplace. It's like a dream
come true for her. Now she can shop with the other residents on the bus,
instead of feeling like she is bothering someone to take her shopping. While
that's not the case, any independent person feels that way. My mother is 81
years old but has her pride and the Gardens have helped her gain
independence. That in itself has made my mother feel good about herself.
I also love how they are always looking to bring whatever the resident need
to them. Whether it is dining, foot specialists, tai chi classes, there is
always momentum. They are always looking toward the future and what can make
our folks lives happier and easier.
I honestly can say this is not just a miracle for my mom, but for her kids
too. There is no better feeling than to know your mother is happy. I can't
thank them enough!! I would recommend the Gardens to any and all looking for
a real home and independence for themselves or loved one. You won't regret
it!
Thankfully and Sincerely Yours,
L. B. W.
V. B's daughter
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